The Family Home
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This is a story about my family, and the house my father grew up
in just outside of Philadelphia. His parents bought the house in 1961.
They raised five children there and lost one. My grandfather was in the
Merchant Marines - fixing engines in the steamy underbelly of the
liberty ships that sailed in WWII. Later, he worked for the Pennsylvania
steel companies. My grandmother curled her hair and cooked up great,
hearty meals for raucous family dinners around the dining room table. I
visited every summer with my parents, on home-leave from Asia, where we
lived. We moved around a lot - the Philly house was always there to come
home to.
I spent many summers splashing around in the creek out back of the house
- digging clay from the banks, finding bright, discarded fish tank
pebbles mixed in with the gray and brown ones, catching crayfish beneath
flat stones, chasing the millions of blinking fireflies around the yard
at dusk.
These are my good memories - my comfortable, safe memories of childhood
and home. But, there is a sadness, too. Up and down the street, in most
of the houses, people have stories of cancer. Dad's brother died of
leukemia when he was 25. My grandmother fought breast cancer for 11
years before she died. My grandfather had colon cancer, my aunt has
struggled with breast cancer, and my father was diagnosed with
non-hodgkins lymphoma a few years ago. My grandfather would tell stories
of all the people in all the houses who had struggled with cancer -
over and over, in far too many houses, the same sad stories. Something is wrong with the neighborhood - but nobody knows what.
Most of the pictures in the series were made on what I knew would be my
last stay at the house, in March of this year. The house is up for sale.
The work is an homage to our family and our history - our shared
memories, both good and bad. It is one last look at the house we called
home for so many years.